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Another queer friend of mine told me that my "out and proud" lifestyle makes them feel inadequate. I was too afraid to do that myself, so I resented them for it. You can spend your whole life doing that and make approximately no one happy, least of all yourself.

If you need advice, send him a question at holapapiletters gmail. No one who legitimately cares about you is really going to feel better about themselves because you've shifted the way you walk and talk in deference to their insecurities.

Hola Papi!

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Papi, am I too much? It's nice of you to consider other people's feelings, but it's not your job to tone yourself down to make other people more comfortable. Do I need to do better to make space for more reserved queer people? I had to step out of my comfort zone a few times, and those endeavors didn't always feel successful many items of clothing were bought, promptly thrown in my closet, and never worn because I thought I looked silly in thembut eventually I came to understand that it wasn't up to anyone but me to embody the person I wanted to be.

Is there any virtue in "toning it down? When I first came out, I was jealous of the flamboyant gay men who dressed the way I wanted to dress and talked the way I wanted to talk, seemingly without shame. Now, yes. CBS must pay nearly $10 million to an executive accused of racist, sexist comments — after caving to a “woke mob” and firing him before an investigation into his conduct was complete.

I've certainly felt that before. By continuing to use our site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use. Welcome to! I think that resentment happens in people who aren't queer, too. Hola, Papi! Over the past two decades, daytime TV soaps have out-gayed themselves!.

Billy discusses the challenges he faced while trying to break into the industry, the history of LGBTQ+ actors in Hollywood, and his historic gay rom-com "Bro. I'm pretty sure that's what's happening here. That resentment faded away the more comfortable I got with myself and my identity as a gay man.

In other words, I guess you could say I'm always "on" when it comes to my identity and how I express myself. The person they're uncomfortable with is themselves. I like to dress up, and I present as very gender-nonconforming. Hi there, 2L2P!

There is a legitimate struggle for queer people, especially ones who are only recently coming into their identity, in feeling inadequate in their self-expression. I think there are a lot of cisgender heterosexual people who look at out and proud queer people confidently breaking all the rules and thinking, "Hey, how come they get to do that and I don't?